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Top 10 Things to Do With Tweens & Teens at Home

Top 10 Things to Do With Tweens & Teens at Home

Many families face an unprecedented situation right now. Kids at home for weeks without their usual activities. They can’t really go anywhere or do any of the things they normally do, even during holiday or summer breaks. 

The forced slow-down will have some positives, but one of the hardest parts will be the limitations on where we can go. Below are things tweens and teens can do at home.

We pull from a few different categories: learn, create, help, move, connect and relax. It’s important to be intentional - and encourage your kids to be intentional - as they build their own schedules for a few weeks. Without school, activities, sports and volunteer commitments, it becomes our responsibility to build a new routine and creatively fill the different roles those things play in our lives.

1. Expand Your Alexa Skills

We have three Amazon Echo Dots in our house. We primarily use them to play music, answer questions or set alarms, but the Skills & Games function on the Alexa app has some really fun things to keep tweens and teens entertained or even learning at home. Common Sense Media lists 19 great skills for kids and teens.

Here are a few examples:

  • Song Quiz. Think Name That Tune where you pick the musical genre.
  • Travel Quest. Kids get a virtual passport, answer questions and learn facts as they travel to different countries.
  • Escape the Room. Using simple directions, teens search a virtual room, gather clues and solve a puzzle.
  • Would You Rather and Would You Rather for Family (this is the more PG version)
  • The Magic Door. An interactive adventure game.
  • Heads Up! Alexa takes the popular app to audio, giving you clues so you can guess the word before time runs out. There are free decks of cards and then others you can buy.
  • Bingo. Print Bingo cards and off you go.

  • 2. Learn to Cook New Things

    I’m planning to assign my tween some cooking responsibilities while he’s home. It gives him something to do, helps me out and furthers my mission to make him the kind of man whose college roommate and wife thank me for teaching him basic life skills. Taste of Home has a list of 34 recipes teens should know by heart - you know, like quesadillas and pigs in a blanket. You can also place an order forAmazon Best Seller cookbook: Teens Cook: How to Cook What You Want to Eat and have it in two days.

    A final option is registering for the Kids Cook Real Food eCourse (register until March 16 and then it closes until June). Though the beginner lessons work better for younger kids, the advanced video lessons cover knife skills, sauteing vegetables and making basic sauces and kids can watch and learn from home.

    3. Become a LEGO Master

    The 2020 Fox show LEGO Masters with host Will Arnett follows adult teams completing LEGO building challenges. Watch an episode on Hulu and then dust out bins of LEGOs to see how well you can complete the same challenge. Or watch enough to see the challenge, stop to build, and then compare your creation to the masters’ work.


    4. Tap Into Documentaries

    Netflix has some great documentaries for tweens and teens, including I am Bolt, The Last Man on the Moon, Undefeated, He Named Me Malala, A Place at the Table and Dream Big.

    Common Sense Media lists the best documentaries on Netflix and allows you to search by age of your kids.

    5. Take a Hike, Ride a Bike

    Though group activities are out, public health officials encourage people to get outside for activities where they can stay at a distance from others. Visit local parks for hikes or pull out the bikes for fresh air and exercise.

    Here's another idea to get kids outside and put their phones to better use. You can even make it a competition! Outdoor Photo Scavenger Hunt

    6. Help Someone Out

    Nursing home residents and elderly adults who rarely leave their homes are especially isolated and lonely right now. Cheer them up by sending a card or ordering a few prints of some favorite photos to be delivered. As of now, mail delivery is continuing, but here is the USPS page for updated statements just in case.

    If you have a Shipt or Instacart account, order groceries and have them delivered to elderly friends or others in need. Kristie loves Shipt because she can request delivery in most places around the country, so you can live far away and still be helpful. (Here’s $50 off the $99 annual membership fee--it is an affiliate link.)

    Use social media for good! Small businesses could also use support because people aren’t out and about like normal. Do Gooder Columbus has 8 ways you can help out your favorite small businesses.

      7. Schedule a Movie Marathon 

      Extended time at home doesn’t typically happen, so this might be the perfect chance to binge watch some movies or set up a video game competition. Here are some suggestions:

      • Movie Series: Back to the Future, Star Wars, Pirates of the Caribbean, Harry Potter, Indiana Jones, Mighty Ducks, Lord of the Rings, Jurassic Park, Now You See Me 1 & 2, Rocky, Mission Impossible
      • Marvel Movies
      • Sports Movies: Sandlot, Remember the Titans, Rudy, Angels in the Outfield, A League of Their Own, Hoosiers, The Blind Side
      • Throw-Back Movies: Ferris Bueller, Princess Bride, Goonies, Karate Kid, Footloose, Grease
      • Other Favorites: Mean Girls, Pitch Perfect, Napoleon Dynamite, 13 Going on 30, Clueless, High School Musical, 10 Things I Hate About You


      8. Build a Scavenger Hunt 

      Teens and tweens can create old-school scavenger hunts at home with pen and paper for siblings or parents, but the app Goose Chase allows one person to build a hunt online and three teams can then compete from multiple locations. The free recreational plan provides a real-time activity feed and scores. Kids can take turns building hunts for their friends and competing.

      9. Creatively Connect with Family and Friends 

      We finally have time to touch base with some people we don’t see or talk to as much as we would like. Encourage your teens and tweens to write an actual letter or thank you note (with paper and a pen and a stamp and everything!) or download the Marco Polo app as a way to send short videos back and forth to friends, cousins or even you during days at home.

      10. Get Organized

      Consider assigning some projects to your tween or teen that just never seem to get done. Ask them to clean out closets and create a box of items to donate (here’s a good post about organizing a teen’s closet). Other ideas: reorganize a coat closet, kitchen cabinet, crawl space or pantry. Throw away expired items and set aside things they haven’t seen used in awhile to be considered for donation. I enlisted my son's help to put together our new Ikea cabinet.

      For more ideas, grab our full list of Things to Do at Home For Tweens & Teens. We'll send you the printable PDF!

      Things to Do at Home for Tweens & Teens

      An abridged version of this post was included in the Ohio State University's "Ohio State Insights" publication: 9 tips for talking to your kids about the coronavirus

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