“Get Up Earlier” Is The Wrong Message


Being a morning person is often equated with success, especially in school and business. Countless articles tell us to get up earlier for quiet time, but they miss key points about biology and natural preferences of sleeping and waking that we need to understand. Benefits exist for both early birds and night owls, so we should focus on quiet time as a priority, rather than the time of day. Success isn’t determined by when you get up. 

The Wrong Message

This was supposed to be about getting up early–why you should and how you can benefit from a change in your schedule. A lot of encouragement and hype to motivate you to rise and shine, even if that’s the last thing you want to do. Research to support a 5am alarm, waking up before everyone else, having a cup of coffee in the quiet morning hours.

After all, that’s what I started doing in January. I’ve been pretty consistent with my schedule since I’ve prioritized getting up around 5 every day (except on the nights when I write this blog). My house is peaceful that early, and since “peace” is my word of the year, it seemed like a good idea to find some every day. Even if the only time to do that is when everyone else is sound asleep, including the dogs.

It has honestly been a game-changer for me: I’m a lot calmer when everyone else wakes up because I’ve had some time to myself, I’m more confident about what I need to do that day because I have a plan, I’m less prone to tension headaches that had been a near daily occurrence for over a year and I’m focused on the right things because I’ve spent time reading and praying.

I was ready to go all-in on this Get Up Early to Improve Your Life message! A 2016 article in the Wall Street Journal declared 4am as the most productive time of the day. Business Insider profiled 21 highly successful early risers. Author and speaker Rachel Hollis inspired hundreds of thousands of women to get up an hour earlier during her #last90days challenge of 2018.

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But guess what? That’s not the right message.

The Right Message

Instead of trying to motivate you to get up earlier, I’d like to suggest something else that really does have the potential to change your days, your months, your life.

Carve out 30-60 minutes every day based on your chronotype.

Say what??

Yeah, before I started researching this, I had never seen that word either.

But here’s the deal. When we tell people they need to get up earlier, we discount the biology of sleep patterns and a person’s individual circadian rhythm. The National Sleep Foundation simplifies it like this: “If you’ve ever noticed that you tend to feel energized and drowsy around the same times every day, you have your circadian rhythm to thank. What is it, exactly? Your circadian rhythm is basically a 24-hour internal clock that is running in the background of your brain and cycles between sleepiness and alertness at regular intervals. It’s also known as your sleep/wake cycle.”

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Depending on your circadian rhythm, you’re naturally either an early bird or a night owl or somewhere in between. It’s biology. It’s also your chronotype: your tendency toward “morningness or eveningness.” You probably already have a pretty good idea of where you fall, but I always love a good quiz! There’s plenty of research to support the results of this questionnaire, and you get great advice when you’re done. (Love quizzes too? We have one to help you identify and make the most of your secret weapon as a working mom.)

The Automated Morningness-Eveningness Questionnaire: “Our questionnaire gives you advice about your “circadian rhythm type.” There will be 19 questions about your daily sleep-wake habits and the times of day you prefer certain activities. Answering should take only about 5-10 minutes. As soon as you finish, you will receive personalized feedback.”

I scored 70 on the questionnaire which barely put me in the “definite morning” category. A score of 69 would’ve been the “moderate morning” category. Every time I take a quiz or personality assessment, I end up somewhere in the middle of things! Ugh. Based on this result, here’s part of what I learned:

  • My melatonin onset probably occurs around 8pm (when I could fall asleep pretty easily)
  • My “natural” bedtime is at about 10:30pm
  • The best time for me to get up (to avoid oversleeping) is 5:15am

This is pretty consistent with my current schedule, and I can definitely tell a difference when I get enough sleep and wake up between 5 and 5:30.

So of course I’m going to experience a lot of positive benefits by making this a habit! It’s not requiring me to fight against some pretty strong biological preferences. Yes, I have to be intentional and make a commitment to this habit, but based on sleep research, it’s a good idea for me to follow that general schedule anyway.

But for people who have a natural tendency to have more energy at night, getting up early sounds impossible! (Not to mention the complications if you’re a shift worker. Or a new mom. Or a teenager–seriously, the research on later school start times for schools is legit.)

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I remember sleepwalking through those first few months with my youngest son.

Early Birds vs. Night Owls

Early birds are set up for greater success in our world because schools and most businesses run on an earlier schedule. Night owls are often viewed as lazy because their most productive hours don’t sync with traditional work times. Harvard Business Review interviewed sleep researcher Christoph Randler who said, “When it comes to business success, morning people hold the important cards. My earlier research showed that they tend to get better grades in school, which get them into better colleges, which then lead to better job opportunities.” Even so, all is not lost for those of you who are late risers!

What Science Says About Early Birds

What Science Says About Night Owls

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A BBC article made a pretty strong case against trying to change your circadian rhythms by more than an hour: “‘If people are left to their naturally preferred times, they feel much better. They say that they are much more productive. The mental capacity they have is much broader,’ says Oxford University biologist Katharina Wulff, who studies chronobiology and sleep. On the other hand, she says, pushing people too far out of their natural preference can be harmful. When they wake early, for example, night owls are still producing melatonin. ‘Then you disrupt it and push the body to be in the daytime mode. That can have lots of negative physiological consequences,’ Wulff says, ‘like a different sensitivity to insulin and glucose – which can cause weight gain.’”

Well then. Getting up early doesn’t universally change lives like I thought it would, but knowing your body’s circadian rhythms or chronotype and acting accordingly can absolutely make a difference.

Quiet Time: When To Do It And Why It Matters

You need to figure out when you’re at your best. Set aside 30-60 minutes and be intentional about spending that time quietly and wisely. Do it every single day if at all possible. Yes, that will mean sacrifices, but it will always be worth it.

A Harvard Business Review article emphasizes the importance of setting aside time: “The Busier You Are, the More You Need Quiet Time.” Silence restores the nervous system, develops new cells in a region of the brain associated with learning and memory and is stabilizing to cardiovascular and respiratory systems.

Quiet time can help keep us focused and more productive. It helps reduce stress which means improved physical and emotional health. Good mental breaks can also restore motivation, increase creativity and improve learning.

If mornings are best for you, get up before the rest of your family even if you’re tired. If evenings are better, shut down your technology earlier and save the last half hour or hour before bed.

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If you spend 30-60 minutes every day doing something on the list below, YOU WILL SEE A NOTICEABLE DIFFERENCE in many areas of your life. We’ve written about all of these, so click on the link to read more.

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  • REFLECT: Unexpected ways reflection can make your 2019 better Reflection requires slowing down, and I much prefer to keep charging forward than hit the brakes and take a look back. The new year knocks and I have plans to make, travel to do, people to see and things to accomplish. But one thing I learned in 2018 is that I need to make it a priority to stop, look back and process, or I really am missing something. Failing to reflect – consciously consider what I did, what happened, and what I can learn from it – will cost me growth not only as a person, but as a teacher, daughter, sister, entrepreneur, friend, wife and mom.
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Even just a quick overview makes a pretty compelling argument for prioritizing quiet time: improved mental and physical health, increased optimism and positive mindset, more empathy and happiness, increased productivity and stronger relationships. With all that at stake, my quiet time is non-negotiable.

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